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Don't trust Charisma on Command.



Charlie from Charisma on Command claims he wants to help you “learn how to be more confident and likable.” So I did some research to find out if that’s really true.

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Credits:

Thanks to my dear friends for all the feedback on the script & video.

Wayback Machine:
“Kickass Academy”
(scrubbed from his website)
http://web.archive.org/web/20181212113415/https://www.charismaoncommand.com/kickassery/
“Roses”
http://web.archive.org/web/20160302092238/http://www.charismaoncommand.com/roses/
Radio interview:
https://socialconfidencemastery.com/how-to-become-a-high-value-person-with-charlie-houpert/
http://web.archive.org/save/https://socialconfidencemastery.com/how-to-become-a-high-value-person-with-charlie-houpert/

Scrubbed pages of interest:
https://www.charismaoncommand.com/dont-change-filter/
http://web.archive.org/web/20190504105453/https://www.charismaoncommand.com/dont-change-filter/

“How to Get A Date With A Beautiful Woman In 5 Minutes Without Being Creepy Or Playing Games”
https://www.charismaoncommand.com/daytime-domination/
https://web.archive.org/web/20190505223602/https://www.charismaoncommand.com/daytime-domination/

““YES!” I shout and give her a great big bear hug.”
https://web.archive.org/web/20150403150120/http://www.charismaoncommand.com/the-first-and-maybe-last/

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Malica85
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Malica85

I've honestly been a fan of Charisma on command for a very long time now since some of the tips he's shared has been very helpful for someone as socially awkward as me lol so I clicked on this video with big skepticism.

However, seeing the cringey, creepy side of Charlie giving relationship advice (as I only watch his videos about making friends) really puts things into perspective!

Thanks for this!

I'm definitely going to watch his videos with a grain of salt from now on :>

Matt Vandart
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Matt Vandart

hahahah this vid cracked me up

F Dom
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F Dom

He seems like a good dude to me with decent advice in his videos. Why did you give your video this title?

That Kid
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That Kid

you sound pretty brain dead to me

Pointer Ryan
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Pointer Ryan

I've been a fan of their channel for a long time, having found a lot of useful applied psychology videos and analysis of dozens of celebrities. As a student of communication and psychology, I can say that he does do his research and puts in the work integrating all the dozens of reaea3ch and books out there he has ready. There are many advise that are indeed backed up by decades of research and used in professional counseling settings. However, this is where I will have to agree with you on. I get a pickup artist vibe from him. As… Read more »

Jason C
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Jason C

I hope I get my money back 😳🤢

CptNoodlez
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CptNoodlez

2:18 I love it how the mail basically starts with "Hi Sad, it's Charlie"

Lordslothable
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Lordslothable

What? You don’t like head games??? Cmon everybodies doin it!

Lordslothable
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Lordslothable

Just worship Satan sell your soul. The delusional brain dead masses will gravitate towards you. Truth is the most unpopular product on earth.

Juan Tello
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Juan Tello

I still hold the faith on the man, he is absolutly an alpha-man from Alphaville

10 cylinders SON
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10 cylinders SON

Lol no wonder this sjw has No subs. Shes bringing up the most moronic arguments and has no points that make any sense.

SpadesCGU
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SpadesCGU

i watch his videos for insight, but i aint that much of a sucker to pay for information i can get for free

Adam Parker
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Adam Parker

The first thing I learned in sales was that customer is not right

Ryan C
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Ryan C

He has a lot of super helpful tips to few more confident, but I always thought it was a perfect channel for a sociopath to learn.

Everett Newell
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Everett Newell

well… I've watched CoC and enjoyed some of the content – especially analysis of body language and methods of communication/assertion/honesty. I never watch his content on "lady tips" or "pick up practices." I never had the impression that was his focus. This is pretty cringy, though. Talking about picking up people is gross.

Forte
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Forte

honestly, i think you're cherry picking a lot of your arguments (taking some of his "advices" out of context) so a lot of your arguments are quite biased.

but hey, a price to pay for making it more entertaining, i guess.

Satou Kazuma
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Satou Kazuma

Annnddd ur using charlie to get views

Emma O123
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Emma O123

9:22 If a man randomly stopped me like that and called me stunning while I'm walking alone in the street I would be really scared, especially if he's that much bigger than me, and especially because of my anxiety…he might think he's doing this right but she is obviously trying to leave the situation…of course she smiled and laughed nervously, because if a woman straight up tells a man to leave her alone then she's a "bitch".

Gourmet Gains
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Gourmet Gains

Honestly, looks like you have a crush…
Just go talk to him.

Airyo
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Airyo

Charlie is a person with his own personality, he attracts and is attracted to a certain type. Whenever he says women wil come to you and adore you he means that his type of women will do that, you shouldn't not do his tips if you don't feel like you want to become him or a version of him.

brad peterson
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brad peterson

I dont like people like you. Sound like a hater

KK Kinner
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KK Kinner

All this and it’s so simple how to approach girls. You don’t. Love the video

Michael Casimer
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Michael Casimer

Like everything else. If you dig long enough you will find something shitty about them. If someone did the same to you I'm sure someone could make you look not so great. He might not be anything great. But some things help and that's all I really take. He could be weird but the coolest ppl are. I feel sorry for the guy poor piece of human. So basically your saying he's a predator and a lier. Well that sucks. Oh well.

Elliotido
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Elliotido

Yeah, I figured that he wouldn't be completely honest. There are some practical things I adapted from his videos, but I was also able to filter out "the bad" so to speak.

Martin Aksglæde Hansen
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Martin Aksglæde Hansen

i must say, i cant believe anyone liked this video… 😀 I know, for a fact that everything charlie teaches actually makes you more charismatic… so fact over belief anyday. eing judgemental is cheesy.

Alvin Flores
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Alvin Flores

Wow, I dont think ive seen this level of salt in a while…Your voice sounds like nails on a chalkboard. Goodluck with your shutdown operation lol

Axel Nieto
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Axel Nieto

How to get views by exposing holes of others.

Tim Berg
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Tim Berg

Well it says "eventually" with the questions. That means asking questions about interrests is good, but eventually you might want to change it up a bit, especially if it is flirting. So he is like literally everyone else, trying to make money? Everyone realizes that. Must of his content which people watch are free and available on youtube. So what if he fabricated some story on his site? what the fuck? The clip around 9:40 – yeah or she is just nervous that someone approached her? "she is trying to walk away" I'm pretty sure she just could walk away… Read more »

TheGreastestGamer
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TheGreastestGamer

This definitely changed my perspective of his channel, honestly, I like his analysis videos that show examples of other people being charismatic and they help me feel more confident, being socially awkward and all, but most of all, I love that so much effort went into this video, you definitely deserve a lot more attention than you’re getting.

keaton wilde
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keaton wilde

So This video would have held more ground if you didn't keep jumping from opinion to opinion. Is he making up the stories or not? Because if he is making up the stories then the fact of what he does in them doesn't matter, but if they're true then those snippets would hold some value. Honestly, I am fine with being critical of other people, but for the sake of a good debate you should at least pick a side

LastWisdom
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LastWisdom

"Dating" or "pickup" advices from that dude are more or less but pathetic in a whole. Ether way less pathetic than shit in this video… If dig down to every single word of someone, it will be easy to find stupidity in that. Сriticizing – is simplest thing that anyone can do. This guy is pretty succesful infobusinesmen. He's raising tons of money on naive losers and tell them shit they want to hear. Problem is in audience.

Riley Sligting
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Riley Sligting

… honestly I watched his videos at work cuz I thought they were interesting and I was kind of a fan for Charlie for a while but after seeing this and taking a step back I’d have to admit Charlie’s advice is pretty creepy 😅

Emma O123
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Emma O123

Also, the guy who is desperate for girls and constantly trying to hit on every girl he sees is NOT attractive. If someone is interested in you and five minutes later you're flirting with another girl, that completely ruins it. Just a tip for any guys trying to get a girl-don't try too hard.

Susan Kang
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Susan Kang

Hater video